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Reciprocity in Relationships
Why is "give to give" the key for couples? There are so many coupes who are struggling and finding it difficult to talk let alone share...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Oct 123 min read
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Say all your 'Don’ts' before you say 'I Do'
Most couples spend their time dreaming about the kind of relationship they want. They imagine the romantic dinners, the holidays together, the intimacy, the partnership, the laughter. All the good things.
But what if the real clarity the foundation of a marriage or long-term commitment lies not just in the do’s, but in the don’ts?
Lottie Passell-Syms
Sep 123 min read
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How rich are you really?
When we hear the word rich, our minds often go straight to money.
But richness is not only about what sits in your bank account: it’s about the wealth of your senses, your consciousness, your reality, and your ability to live in the here and now.
Lottie Passell-Syms
Sep 122 min read
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Saying "No" can save your Relationships
Discover how healthy boundaries can transform your relationship. Learn to say no with love and deepen connection.
Lottie Passell-Syms
Aug 253 min read
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Affirmations for Couples: Because of YOU ..
Affirmations to say to each other: * Because of you, I laugh louder and smile more. * Because of you, I feel safe to be fully myself. *...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Jul 202 min read
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The I Before the We
There’s a phrase that anchors so much of the work I do: I be4 we. It may sound counterintuitive when we’re talking about relationships, however a strong we can only exist when the I is solid, self-aware, and prepared to do the work.
Lottie Passell-Syms
Jun 222 min read
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Arguing for Connection: from rupture to recovery
Arguments in relationships aren’t just about the dishes or who’s always late. They’re often about something much deeper: an unmet need, a longing, or an old wound that hasn’t had the chance to heal.
Lottie Passell-Syms
Jun 223 min read
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The Power of Trust in Relationships: Building, Breaking, and Rebuilding after infidelity
Trust is the foundation of every meaningful relationship—romantic, platonic, or familial. It creates a deep connection, allowing for...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Apr 133 min read
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Predictability of Habits in Relationships
How predictability in habits can both strengthen and challenge relationships.
Lottie Passell-Syms
Mar 161 min read
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Why are sexless marriages on the rise?
Sexless relationships are not just about the absence of sex - they are often a reflection of deeper emotional dynamics...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Feb 62 min read
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Women, Love and Affection: managing daily life and relationships
In my recent live session on Women, Affection and Love, we had a powerful conversation that really touched on some fundamental issues in...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Nov 10, 20242 min read
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Is your relationship in gridlock? Here's how to break the cycle ...
Many couples find themselves stuck in a repetitive cycle: the same argument, the same feelings of frustration of not being heard ...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Oct 20, 20242 min read
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Where do you seek validation from to measure your self worth?
Validation is something we all seek, whether consciously or subconsciously, and it often comes from various aspects of our lives.
Lottie Passell-Syms
Oct 20, 20244 min read
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Men, Affection and Love: Understanding how men express their emotions
Men express love in diverse ways: sometimes through actions, sometimes through words, but always with the desire for connection ...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Oct 6, 20244 min read
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Why Couples Aren't Having Sex
My FREE live workshop in August was about the lack of sex within a relationship and reasons why couples aren't having sex . In this...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Sep 22, 20242 min read
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Why Do Online Men Give Women the Ick?
This month I have been featured in British Vogue magazine, answering questions on why online men give so many women the 'ick'. Olivia...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Aug 25, 20246 min read
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Boost Your Self-Esteem and Confidence: The Key to a Fulfilling (Sex) Life
Everything starts with your mindset whether it's work, family, intimate relationships, or self-improvement.
Lottie Passell-Syms
Jul 10, 20243 min read
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Attachment Theory and How It Can Impact Relationships
In the realm of long-term relationships, understanding how our early attachments influence our behaviour and interactions with our...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Jun 16, 20244 min read
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Celebrating International Women's Day - Embracing Balance
This International Women's Day, it feels necessary to acknowledge the journey and struggles of women, especially in maintaining a balance...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Mar 7, 20242 min read
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Unveiling the Unexpected: Transform Your Intimacy Beyond the Bedroom
In the quest for a more fulfilling sex life, it’s easy to get caught up in the search for new techniques and secrets that promise to...
Lottie Passell-Syms
Feb 19, 20243 min read
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